Do you agree that Stress
Management & Self Improvement programs are important for securing
your job and career?
Surveys conducted all over
the world have concluded that there are at least 10 most popular
reasons on why people would seriously consider quitting their jobs.
Let’s take a closer look at the top 10 reasons today:
The company that they
are working for is hit by financial woes, losing customers and
there are rumours of ramping down, closure or bankruptcy.
Their professional and
personal relationships with their bosses or superiors are
damaged beyond repair.
Their life situations
have gone through some awkward changes such as marriage and
parenting. Marriage and having a new member in the family (a
baby) usually brings additional financial commitments that
current salaries and benefits could no longer support.
Their personal values
are locking horns or at odds with their corporate culture. Bossy
people would not feel comfortable in an office environment that
practices openness and hierarchical decision making. Likewise,
people who are comfortable with hierarchical decision makings
would not be comfortable in a tight leashed ‘the boss is always
right’ kind of office environment.
Their levels of boredom
have reached the maximum and they no longer enjoy their work on
daily basis. Going to work has become so dreadful and that is
killing them inside.
They are dissatisfied
and losing patience with their company’s non-ethical
wrongdoings. Maybe their companies are cheating customers on
quality and they find that totally unacceptable.
They themselves have
done too many wrongdoings such as missing too many days of work
or taking too many time offs and that have considerably stain
their reputations to the eyes of their superiors. Once seen as
bad apples, it would be almost impossible to fix that.
They have totally burnt
their bridges with their mates and colleagues. Assembling a team
and getting cooperation from team members is getting impossible
and that is affecting their leadership capabilities.
They are highly stressed
dead walking zombies and could no longer concentrate on their
jobs. Their relationships with loved ones at home are affected
and people are avoiding them. This is a classic case of burning
out.
They have so much
potentials and talents that are yet to be explored and
capitalized. They are underutilized and unchallenged and their
offices could not provide them with the necessary excitement.
Malaysians would agree that
reasons highlighted in 2 to 8 are common here in Malaysia. Despite
all the hype and buzz created by the Malaysian government controlled
mass media, Malaysians knew very well deep inside that the general
Malaysian office or work culture is neither friendly nor healthy.
Malaysian Malays and Malaysian Indians were brought up in highly
tolerant ethnic communities. We can say that Malaysian Malays and
Malaysian Indians were raised in believing that any problems could
easily be solved through compromising, giving and taking. However,
they would soon get the shock of their lives once they finish their
school years or graduate from college. Here in Malaysia, the local
economy is undoubtedly being monopolized by the Malaysian Chinese
and it is not strange to see that almost every business here whether
big and small are managed by them. Malaysian Malays and Malaysian
Indians who are eager to work on their very first job in a company
managed or monopolized by Malaysian Chinese would soon find out how
different they are from the Malaysian Chinese community. The
Malaysian Chinese community is highly disciplined, a bit impatient
and have zero tolerance for nonsense. These traits are alien to the
Malaysian Malays and Malaysian Indian communities. Many could not
adjust in time and find themselves totally lost in limbo and
quitting most of time would be their best option.
Some Malaysians thought that
the solution to the previous highlighted problem would be to find
employments in an office with majority of the staff are from their
common ethnic group. Unfortunately as many have found out, it
doesn’t really work well for them too. Even in a tight ethnic group,
there are small groups that differentiate themselves and many have
problems adapting to this ridiculous Malaysian office politics. For
an example, Malaysian Malay Kelantanese would obviously ganged up
and form their own Kelantanese group, thus alienating themselves
from other Malaysian Malays. Those who are caught in this tight
situation often could not adapt well enough and they took the easy
way out by quitting. Many Malaysians and foreign expatriates have
voiced their disappointment with this apparent lack of understanding
and team work spirit among Malaysians. No wonder then some parties
have labelled Malaysia as among the world’s worst place to earn a
living and develop a good career!
The Malaysian government in
their effort to diminish the gap between each Malaysian ethnic group
introduced National Service a few years back and made it compulsory
to all 18 year olds Malaysians. Local observers have long questioned
the long term effectiveness of the National Service program. After
all, can a short social training that is conducted for a couple of
months could really change years of singular ethnic upbringing that
has now become the norms of every young Malaysians?
If we look closely at all of
the 10 reasons on why people would quit their jobs, they all have
two things in common. People who are contemplating with such reasons
may have poor control over their lives and lack the knowledge in
handling their personal emotions. This problem is not actually new
here and many local career counsellors have identified that
Malaysians who are having problems coping with their careers and
working environments must take the initiative in learning the
following skills:
Stress management
A lot of people may have a little problem
in seeking this knowledge for many considered it as the
solution applicable for those that have gone cuckoo or lost
their marbles. But they have to accept the fact sooner or
later that stress management is not something that we should
dismiss entirely for records have shown that work and office
politics are one of the top common stress factors. Learning
to manage stress would give workers a chance to heal
themselves from any psychological stress that can be caused
by internal or external stimulus such as what we have
discussed earlier.
Self improvement
Once again, some people especially young
graduates and professionals consider Self Improvement
programs as rubbish. They may think that Self Improvement
programs are only for losers and whiners but the hard truth
is that everyone needs them for nobody is perfect. Those
born with a history of singular ethnic upbringing should
take the opportunity to master social skills, a very
important module of any Self Improvement programs. Mastering
the art of socializing could indeed help workers in adapting
to any multi national or multi cultural companies every
where in the world.
In the end, quitting jobs
are not really the best way to solve problems. Wouldn’t it be better
off if you would give your best to face the problems head on and
find ways to go around them instead? Unfortunately, not that many
people can do that unless of course they have gone through many
Stress Management and Self Improvement programs. Globalization has
made everyone go bonkers especially to those who are involves in
corporate decision makings. Stress Management and Self Improvement
programs or knowledge are no longer some options that people can put
aside. They have become major necessities for those who really want
to survive in any corporate jungle.
Now that you know why
people are quitting their jobs in the first place, do you agree that
Stress Management and Self Improvement programs could help them in
facing their problems in the future? Please leave your answer down
below.